Questions & Reminders

The following Questions and Reminders with Dylan are for the sole purpose of opening to the Holy Spirit, dissolving the apparent suffering which comes with the desire to value the voice that speaks against God โค

Beloved Friend: Hey Dylan, how are you? I want to ask you something.

I recently moved to Japan. I’ve been here for maybe a week. And there are a lot of triggers. From family, the society and just people. What are these triggers doing here? Are they here to help me expand? Or are they just a reflection of my inner self?

Loving Reminder: Love Corrects All Lack of Love

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Beloved Friend: When I see myself assigning consequences to my children for certain behaviour, I feel so contracted when I buy into these roles. Could you please help me see this differently?

Loving Reminder: Love is Unconditional

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Beloved Friend: When teachings say, “What you see in the world is a reflection of yourself,” when I see someone as stupid does it mean that I am stupid?

Loving Reminder: If You Spot It, You Got It

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Beloved Friend: Can you share more about opening to the Self in Christ?

Dylan: Initially, for me, I was always skeptical about God. It was always a word thrown around by people, in my judgement at the time, who were not showing the Fruits of the Spirit. So, from this I had an aversion to God…

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Beloved Friend: Can you please comment on schooling, as I am currently feeling uninspired and do not have a sense of direction for my life?

Loving Reminder: Life is Happening Now

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Beloved Friend: What do you do when you are feeling so many emotions at once, but donโ€™t know how to deal with one at a time?

Loving Reminder: Let the Clouds Pass Through

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Friend: I feel like I am losing it a bit. How do I operate in a world that Iโ€™m really trying to understand while also understanding, โ€œThe more I seek the more lost I feel?โ€ Itโ€™s a never ending spiral. And I know you talk all the time about how to just relax and open up to the Holy Spirit, becoming aware and mind-watching, but thought is always there even to tell us we are aware. Even experience is thought. Is there life without thought?

Loving Reminder: Beyond Intellect to Experience

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Friend: Do you have any experience with polyamory? Itโ€™s becoming a part of my life and I never thought it would. My wife of 10 years has asked that we open our relationship and Iโ€™m scared to death. I know I shouldnโ€™t be, and Iโ€™m way less scared than I was a few weeks ago when it was brought up. Iโ€™ve just been having a hard time with it and I donโ€™t really know who to talk to. I feel like itโ€™s a good thing in a way, though, because Iโ€™m being shown parts of my ego and negative feelings I didnโ€™t know I was hiding.

Loving Reminder: Relationship with God Fills All Holes

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Contemplation and Insight


Dylan: The tendency of mind which suggests that one can do something wrong in oneโ€™s experience is a deeply rooted, false ego belief held in the mind. As this arises, it is okay to be gentle with yourself. The form in which the belief of wrongness appears is perfectly being used so that one can see the unquestioned misidentification with the ego and its unloving thoughts. This is the only purpose of the form. 

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